12 February 2017

Be perfect, be compassionate



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For if you love those who love you, what right have you to claim any credit? Even the tax collectors do as much, do they not? And if you save your greetings for your brothers, are you doing anything exceptional? Even the pagans do as much, do they not? You must therefore be perfect just as your heavenly Father is perfect.’

Matthew 5:46-48

Which teacher among us has not had an aching heart when confronted with a child in our class who has been neglected, emotionally, physically or sexually abused (and the statistics themselves are numbingly appalling, see: Child abuse and neglect statistics). Who among us has not been shaken by the catalogue of crime and betrayal within our Church, our community and our families, nor felt the shame, the terror and helplessness as victim after victim dislodged the inexorable lifelong pain before courts, commissions, committees, bearing the brutality of their perpetrators, the cross examination and dismissal by administrators, bishops, principals, departmental heads, judges and politicians.

There can be no turning back, no consolation, no resolution that will undo a child's worst nightmare. The damage is done.

The statistics don't lie. In Australia in 2014-2015 there 56,423 substantiated cases of harm caused to children (there were 320,169 notifications). Despite the Royal Commission and universal public awareness the numbers grow year by year.

Jesus' review of the Levitical precept - You must love your neighbour as yourself (Leviticus 19:18) - is the most critical challenge for Christians, for all human beings everywhere. It is no hardship to love those who love you. And yet the 1.38 million notifications to child safety authorities over 5 years clearly indicate our failure to love our own children. Then we have elder abuse, abuse of those with disabilities, spousal abuse and the self-abuse of alcohol, drugs, self-harm. We struggle to love ourselves sometimes.

Has Jesus set the bar too high? Is our aim to be perfect like our heavenly Father unreachable? Much scholarship has been put into discerning Luke's compassionate and Matthew's perfect. To be perfect, is of course, to be like the Father, and that of course means to be compassionate. Is it so hard to love and care for those in our families? Is it really too much of an ask to expect us to be interested in or concerned about others without thinking we are being busybodies or is it too onerous a duty to speak up and speak out when we see or know cruelty being metered out to the vulnerable and voiceless.          

Australia's various parliaments have legislated teachers and others a mandatory responsibility to report, and while this is admirable, one could ask why giving a hoot about others had to be legislated for. The Church's failure to prevent, halt, fix and accept responsibility is symptomatic of our communal loss of humanity.

For those who stand before a classroom of students, the call to be perfect, to be compassionate, to be responsive to and sensitive to the pain these students may carry is truly loving one's neighbour. Don't for a second underestimate the impact you may have or the difference you might make.


Peter Douglas


   

 The horror of the past 
     
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                          

by Francis Sullivan, Truth Justice and Healing Council
The release of the data this week into the extent of clerical child sexual abuse in the Australian Catholic Church has been both a statistical and spiritual ground zero for millions of people around Australia and around the world.
It has had a devastating impact on the survivors of abuse, on ordinary Catholics and on the broader community.
As I said in my statement to the Commission on Monday the numbers are shocking, tragic, indefensible and an indictment on both the men who perpetrated the abuse and the leaders at the time who covered up these crimes and turned their heads.
Much has been said and written about the data since Monday so there is little I can add, but to reiterate the clear message that while words are important the commitment of the Catholic Church in Australia to correcting the appalling failures of the past can only be measured through actions and continued vigilance.
We must continue to acknowledge the past, to accept responsibility, to understand the damage that has been done to survivors, to make the changes and to work tirelessly to ensure the abuse never happens again.
10 February 2017

Click here to read to find the Church's response to the Royal Commission that was read to the Commission by Francis Sullivan on 6 February 2017.                                                                                                    

 




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