If our
life in Christ means anything to you, if love can persuade at all, or the
Spirit that we have in common, or any tenderness and sympathy, then be united
in your convictions and united in your love, with a common purpose and a common
mind. That is the one thing which would make me completely happy. There must be
no competition among you, no conceit; but everybody is to be self-effacing.
Always consider the other person to be better than yourself so that nobody
thinks of his own interests first but everybody thinks of other people’s
interests instead. In your minds you must be the same as Christ Jesus.
Philippians
2:1 - 5
Over the
recent years and most particularly in the last several weeks, churches both
broad and narrow have been virtually and literally brow-beaten for their handling
and mishandling of child sex abuse in their institutions and for their
invariable stand on same sex marriage. Nothing can be taken from the victims of
child sex abuse, nor the dignity of LGBTQI.
The subsequent
diminution of the churches' authority and standing have left them howling into
the winds of social change. Their leaders have been mocked and pilloried by the
popular and social media and the scourge has impacted deeply on the psyche of the
faithful in the pews.
Further,
the pursuit of Pope Francis by the alt-right wing of the American church is
divisive and unhelpful.
While the
church has always provided leaders and leadership, the laity has usually been
excluded from playing significant roles, for example in the election of
bishops, even presenting candidates for diaconal or priestly ordination (though
there is a liturgical acclamation, and of course we have had representation at
the Synod of Bishops on the Family). Certainly much progress has been made in
the management of dioceses, schools and health services, but in essence,
despite the many years since Avery Dulles published his first edition of Models of the Church (1974), the
overwhelming model remains hierarchic and clerical (which Dulles called the
Church as Institution).
And how so
different is the church envisaged by Paul. Paul was under no illusion that the
communities he addressed had issues (whether or not to marry, getting drunk,
failing to share with poor...) but he had a clear view of what it should look
like. Astonishingly it is not unlike the church that Pope Francis has called us
to build. But seriously. Very seriously, have we ever attempted to take these
words of Paul to heart? Is it not time to do so now?
The way
forward appears to be that we need to persuade those who work against us with
love, tenderness and sympathy, to be united in love with a common purpose and
mind, and where no one puts themselves first. This kind of leadership, this
kind of church is truly at the service of humanity, called, empowered and
encouraged by the Spirit.
This
begins in our daily relationships. In our homes, staff rooms and classrooms.
And if we are indeed serious, it starts today. Now.
Peter
Douglas
WE NEED TO QUESTION THE DUTY OF PRIESTS NOT
TO DISCLOSE ANYTHING THEY LEARN FROM PENITENTS
This is not a cheerful
column. In the past few weeks a very dark topic has come up for me and I want
us all to think about it. It is “the seal of the confessional” and the sense
that too many of the hierarchy still, despite everything, do not seem to “get it”
when it comes to sexual abuse.
For example, the
Archbishop of Glasgow, Philip Tartaglia, speaking recently to a conference of
priests in Philadelphia, appeared to pin some of the blame for the abuse
scandal on the media, which had reported it “many times fairly, but many times
not”. Is that “wishy-washy” (which is what he’s accused the Scottish laity of
being) or what?
There are nine sins that
lead to automatic excommunication. They are not murder, not rape, not
enslavement and not the sexual exploitation of a minor. They are, in fact,
apostasy, heresy, schism, violating the sacred species (this means the
Eucharistic sacrament, not the baptised Homo sapiens), physically attacking the
Pope, sacramentally absolving an accomplice in a sexual sin (a priest cannot
absolve his own sexual partner), consecrating a bishop without authorisation,
procuring an abortion and violating the seal of confession.
It is the last of these
nine that I want to think about. A priest who hears about sexual abuse in the
confessional cannot even stop the abuser from being the scoutmaster or youth
group leader.
He cannot report the
abuser to anyone – not to the bishop, not to the police, not to the parents. He
can, of course, refuse absolution, but he cannot do anything to protect the
abused. Nor can the confessor tell anyone that he has not absolved the
penitent, let alone why not.
I have heard people
propose that the confessor could require the individual to self-report to, say,
the police as a sign of genuine repentance and willingness to make reparation,
and therefore a proper condition of absolution. But under the present canons
there is nothing a confessor can do to check up that such reparation has been
made, or indeed that the so-called penitent has not just slipped round the corner
and found a more “sympathetic” (!) priest to absolve him.
Perhaps I am
unnecessarily cynical here; given how few Catholics still make use of the
Sacrament of Reconciliation it may seem unlikely that the confessionals are
crammed full of dishonest penitents, sliming round the realities and getting
absolved “on the cheap” while burdening their confessors with a terrible
dilemma. But it really does matter. Abuse is a horrible offence by the powerful
against the powerless and its corrosive damage
is too well known to
gloss over. All the evidence tells us that the most helpful attention an abused
person can be offered is the chance to be heard and believed. It takes courage
to “speak out”; recognising this, recently the police have publicly thanked the
victims of sexual abuse at the end of successful trials. We as a church are
being far less supportive.
I am, as I have said here
before, a “practising” penitent, a user of the Sacrament of Reconciliation. I
have always valued the security and safety that the seal – and the importance
that has been afforded it – have offered me. But, sadly, we do need to reopen
the question of the absolute duty of priests not to disclose anything that they
learn from penitents during the course of the Sacrament of Penance (last addressed
as far as I can determine in 1151 – although that decision was reaffirmed in
the 1983 Code of Canon Law). Various other bodies have moved towards a more
nuanced approach to confidentiality.
Qualified
psychotherapists, for example, will commit themselves at the beginning of a
relationship to confidentiality except in the case of criminality. Crime and
sin are, obviously, not quite the same, but there is a distinct overlap.
This is a conversation
that only the laity can have – or at least is pretty pointless without the
laity. On the whole, it is the laity who are abused and the laity who are the
parents of the abused. In all other contexts the Church has put a hefty (if
proper) burden of responsibility on parents. Moreover, we have clear evidence,
in the resignations from the Vatican’s commission into clerical abuse and its
cover-up, that the laity cannot have confidence in the hierarchy on this issue.
This is sad. I would be sad to lose the tender protection and care of the seal.
But if that might mean that even one child was protected from abuse (by any
adult – of course it is not just priests who abuse) I think that is a sadness I
may, as a disciple, just have to live with.
Sara Maitland is a
novelist and writer.